How do you define a good mother?
Am I a good mother? Do I know what to do? Can I handle it? Probably at once you asked yourself all those questions and believe me, it’s really normal to experience self-doubt. When you becoming a Mom (especially for the first time) you are scared and anxious. You need to deal with sleepless nights, lack of appetite, guilt, fear and insecurity about being alone with your baby. That’s true, being a Mom is not easy.
Am I right person to think about myself as a good mother? I want to believe that I am. In fact I’m quite sure of it. How I can tell it? Every day I see a big smile on my baby’s face. Especially when he see me! I love my son from the moon and back. He is my biggest precious and without him I’m nothing. I would like to point out how I define a good mother. You will see that you don’t need to do nothing inconceivable to became a Mom which your baby needs:
⦁ learn to trust yourself
⦁ be there for your baby when he needs you
⦁ make your child feel special
⦁ be patient
⦁ provide food, shelter, and love
⦁ be a role model for your child
⦁ teach your child how to love unconditionally
⦁ spend a quality time with your baby, play with him and have a fun
You don’t need to be perfect because nobody is. Cherish every moment with your little one. Don’t let other people make you feel that you are not a good mother. You’ve already did a lot. For nine months you were take care of your bump. You were dealing with all those pregnancy afflictions. And what’s most important you gave a birth to your baby and introduce yourself to the world of sleepless nights, restless days and mountains of laundry. That’s really a lot so do not doubt in yourself too often.
I found in google some quizzes if you want to check if you are good Mom feel free to click here. Although I’m not a fun of it. Simply believe in yourself. You are everything what your baby needs. Yes, exactly he needs only you and your love. I hope that my post helped you to realize you are doing fine:)